in love with a girl

Celebrating girls' love and friendship since 11.18.2011

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  1. resstless:

This is what love looks like. Someone who stays up all night to keep you safe. Someone who risks their own life just to save yours. Someone who stays with you til the end. Someone who would lose everything just for you. And this is why I need Emison to happen. Ali saved Emily’s life twice, Emily saved Ali’s life once now. I think they love each other. I think they really really do.
  2. resstless:

    This is what love looks like. Someone who stays up all night to keep you safe. Someone who risks their own life just to save yours. Someone who stays with you til the end. Someone who would lose everything just for you. And this is why I need Emison to happen. Ali saved Emily’s life twice, Emily saved Ali’s life once now. I think they love each other. I think they really really do.

    (via squashapieterse)

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  3. lovequotesrus:

Everything you love is here
  4. lovequotesrus:

    Everything you love is here

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  6. "

    You are 12. You’re at the library looking for some generic young adult fiction novel about a girl who falls for her best friend. Your dad makes a disgusted face. “This is about lesbians,” he says. The word falls out of his mouth as though it pains him. You check out a different book and cry when you get home, but you aren’t sure why. You learn that this is not a story about you, and if it is, you are disgusting.

    You are 15. Your relatives are fawning over your cousin’s new boyfriend. “When will you have a boyfriend?” they ask. You shrug. “Maybe she’s one of those lesbians,” your grandpa says. You don’t say anything. You learn that to find love and acceptance from your family, you need a boyfriend who thinks you are worthy of love and acceptance.

    You are 18. Your first boyfriend demands to know why you never want to have sex with him. He tells you that sex is normal and healthy. You learn that something is wrong with you.

    You are 13. You’re at a pool party with a relative’s friend’s daughter. “There’s this lesbian in my gym class. It’s so gross,” she says. “Ugh, that’s disgusting,” another girl adds. They ask you, “do you have any lesbians at your school?” You tell them no and they say you are lucky. You learn to stay away from people.

    You are 20. You have coffee with a girl and you can’t stop thinking about her for days afterwards. You learn the difference between a new friendship and new feelings for a person.

    You are 13. Your mom is watching a movie. You see two girls kiss on screen. You feel butterflies and this sense that you identify with the girls on the screen. Your mom gets up and covers the screen. You learn that if you are like those girls, no one wants to see it.

    You are 20. You and your friends are drunk and your ex-boyfriend dares you to make out with your friend. You both agree. You touch her face. It feels soft and warm. Her lips are small and her hands feel soft on your back. You learn the difference between being attracted to someone and recognizing that someone you care about is attractive.

    You are 16. You find lesbian porn online. Their eyes look dead and their bodies are positioned in a way that you had never imagined. You learn that liking girls is acceptable if straight men can decide the terms.

    You are 20. You are lying next to a beautiful girl and talking about everything. You tell her things that you don’t usually tell anyone. You learn how it feels not to want to go to sleep because you don’t want to miss out on any time with someone.

    You are 15. Your parents are talking about a celebrity. Your dad has a grin on his face and says, “her girlfriend says that she’s having the best sex of her life with her!” You learn that being a lesbian is about the kind of sex you have and not how you love.

    You are 18. You are in intro to women’s and gender studies. “Not all feminists are lesbians- I love my husband! Most of the feminists on our leadership team are straight! It’s just a stereotype,” the professor exclaims. You learn that lesbianism is something to separate yourself from.

    You are 21 and you are kissing a beautiful girl and she’s your girlfriend and you understand why people write songs and make movies and stupid facebook statuses about this and time around you just seems to stop and you could spend forever like this and you learn that there is nothing wrong with you and you are falling in love.

    You are 21. And you are okay.

    "
    a thing I wrote after arguing with an insensitive dude on Facebook all day or Things Other People Taught me about Liking Girls

    (Source: radandangry, via dance-likeitsyourgoddamnjam)

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  7. Hi, I'm 15, my whole life I've kind of been the odd one out, guys have liked me, but I never liked them back, some I have, and now that I'm older im pretty sure I'm becoming sexually attracted to women, but also men. Idk if its the hormones, but I'm confused. I think I might be gay. Is there any way you can help me figure this out? I just wanna be happy with myself again.

    There was a time that I thought I might be gay, too. That was like 10 years ago. Now I’m pretty sure I am. :)

    The thing is, it was also hard for me to figure out what I was because I used to be boy-crazy and I’ve had massive crushes on boys. (Later on, I realized all my male crushes kind of looked feminine.) But then one girl changed all that and there was no turning back ever since.

    For some people, they’ve always known they weren’t straight. My girlfriend had liked girls from a very young age. But for some… it happened later on in life.

    I really don’t think you should stress yourself much about whether you’re gay or not. Someone told me that sexuality is fluid and your preference may or may not change over time. You don’t have to be confused. If you find someone attractive, then you find them attractive. Doesn’t matter if they’re guys or girls. Doesn’t mean you’d want to marry them already.

    But when you fall in love with a girl, and then she becomes your standard for everything, and then you can’t bear the idea of a relationship with the opposite sex, then you’re probably gay. :)

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  8. hi :) where are u ?

    Currently in a dark windowless room…

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  9. Hi, I am new to tumblr, and ur blog is awesome!! I am Bi myself, but am currently dating a guy and couldn't be happier :) And did I mention I love ur blog?

    Thank you! Your appreciation means a lot. :D I wish you and your love the best. :)

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  11. (us, cuddling) 

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  12. "If she doesn’t scare the hell out of you a little, she’s not the one."
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  13. "I get a little bit more lesbian everyday.."
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  17. jennaanne01:

What I needed
  18. jennaanne01:

    What I needed

    (Source: itsonlyyforever)

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  19. thanks for appreciating this blog since ‘11   ^___^ 
-R.
  20. thanks for appreciating this blog since ‘11   ^___^ 

    -R.

    (Source: miss-ruth)

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